Books
“The Courage to Be Disliked" by Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga
This book introduces the principles of Adlerian psychology and explores the concept of finding freedom through self-acceptance, focusing on how to live authentically and let go of the need for external approval."The Gifts of Imperfection" by Brené Brown
Brené Brown explores the importance of embracing our imperfections and cultivating self-compassion. This book offers a guide to living authentically and letting go of shame and fear."Atomic Habits" by James Clear
A practical and evidence-based approach to habit formation, this book helps clients understand how small changes can lead to big transformations, empowering them to build healthier habits and break negative ones."The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle
This spiritual guide explores the concept of mindfulness and the importance of living in the present moment. Tolle emphasizes how letting go of past regrets and future anxieties can lead to inner peace."Radical Acceptance" by Tara Brach
Tara Brach blends Buddhist teachings with psychotherapy to offer a path to self-compassion and healing. This book helps clients understand how to embrace themselves fully, without judgment, to experience more peace and contentment."Daring Greatly" by Brené Brown
Another powerful work by Brené Brown, this book dives deep into the concept of vulnerability and the courage to show up fully in life. It addresses the power of connection and overcoming fear to create more meaningful relationships."The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman
This classic book by renowned relationship expert John Gottman offers practical advice grounded in research. It provides couples with tools to improve communication, resolve conflicts, and build a deeper, more resilient relationship."Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love" by Dr. Sue Johnson
Dr. Sue Johnson, the creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), explores how attachment theory shapes relationships.
Articles
Source: Brené Brown's Website / TED Talk Transcript Overview: This article (and related TED talk) explores the transformative power of vulnerability in building trust, connection, and resilience. Brown’s research on vulnerability is a great starting point for therapy clients who struggle with shame, perfectionism, or emotional disconnection.
Source: Self-Compassion.org Overview: Kristin Neff is a leading researcher on self-compassion, and this article breaks down the concept and why it's so crucial for mental health. It explains how self-compassion can lead to greater emotional resilience, reduce stress, and improve self-esteem—key topics in therapy.
"The Science of Attachment and How It Affects Relationships" by Alexandra Sacks
Source: The Gottman Institute Overview: This article provides a clear explanation of attachment theory and how our early childhood experiences shape adult relationships. For therapy clients dealing with relationship challenges, this article offers useful insights on how attachment patterns influence behavior and intimacy.
How to Set Healthy Boundaries
Source: Psychology Today
Podcasts
Why You Need Self-Compassion" – The Mindful Kind Podcast with Rachael Kable
Episode: Why You Need Self-Compassion Overview: In this episode, Rachael Kable explains the transformative power of self-compassion. It’s ideal for clients struggling with self-criticism or perfectionism, offering practical tips to practice self-kindness and emotional resilience.
"Understanding Attachment Styles" – The Love, Happiness, and Success Podcast with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Episode: Understanding Attachment Styles Overview: This episode breaks down the concept of attachment styles and how they shape our relationships. It's a great listen for clients working on relationship issues, especially those who struggle with intimacy or communication in romantic relationships.
"How to Manage Your Inner Critic" – The Trauma Therapist Podcast with Guy Macpherson
Episode: How to Manage Your Inner Critic Overview: This episode explores how to deal with the inner critic—those negative, self-defeating thoughts that many clients experience. It's useful for individuals with anxiety, depression, or perfectionism, helping them reframe negative self-talk.
"The Neuroscience of Stress and How to Manage It" – The Mindful Kind Podcast with Rachael Kable
Episode: The Neuroscience of Stress Overview: In this episode, Rachael Kable explains the science behind stress and offers mindfulness-based strategies to manage it. This is helpful for clients who experience chronic stress or anxiety and want practical tools to navigate stressful situations more effectively.
How to Be Kinder to Yourself" with Dr. Kristin Neff
Episode Link: How to Be Kinder to Yourself Overview: Dr. Kristin Neff, one of the leading experts on self-compassion, explains the importance of treating yourself with kindness. This episode is ideal for clients dealing with self-criticism, shame, or perfectionism, offering practical advice on how to cultivate self-compassion.
"The Science of Well-Being" with Dr. Laurie Santos
Episode Link: The Science of Well-Being Overview: Dr. Laurie Santos, a professor of psychology at Yale, shares evidence-based practices for increasing happiness and well-being. This episode is great for clients looking for concrete strategies to improve their mental and emotional health through small, sustainable changes.
"How to Deal with Difficult Emotions" with Dr. Rick Hanson
Episode Link: How to Deal with Difficult Emotions Overview: Dr. Rick Hanson discusses how to deal with negative emotions, offering practical tools to help clients regulate their feelings and shift their mindset. It's especially helpful for clients struggling with anxiety, anger, or emotional dysregulation.
RESOURCES
Please note that the resources listed on this website are provided for informational purposes only. While I believe these resources may be helpful, I am not directly affiliated with any of them. I recognize that each individual’s journey is unique, encourage you to explore a variety of resources that resonate with you personally